14 February 2010

Couple Relationship Tips: Boost your relationship during Valentine's day?

This may be very important for us to have a memorable and fantastic Valentine's day to improve our relationship and subsequently move our relationship forward to the next level, if possible. It might be sound good to spend some money to have a precious gift such as diamond and a wonderful dinner in 5 star hotel during this special day, Valentine's day. However, what I suggest is constantly improve your relationship instead of an "occasionally mass improvement" during so called "special days". Although it cannot be denied that those special days or events are important throughout our life, personally, I will just treat them as reminders for me to improve my relationship in daily basis.

Now, I would like to share with you about my top two tips to improve your relationship throughout your life.

1. Communicate effectively with each other 
This is my first suggestion because this is extremely crucial to avoid any misunderstanding between couple. Many couples around me broke up just because this kind of misunderstanding. This is because many of us believe our partner should know what we want and it is not necessary to speak out our feeling, our desires, or our opinions. Wrong, wrong, wrong. Try to ask "Please tell me what you want?" It is because some of us don't even know what we want. Aren't you? Therefore, how can you so sure that your partner knows about it??? This is the biggest mistake in human being, we just put our life into default and wishing that good thing will come to our life.

Besides that, try to ask your partner if you have no idea about your partner expectation on you and try to tell your partner what you wish to have, where you wish to go, and what you wish to do. Then, discuss those wishes with your partner, accomplish them together and vice versa. In short, to eliminate communication problem between couple will be the only way to maintain and then improve your relationship.

2. Build a new good habit together
There are a lot of fantastic experience for me to go almost everywhere with my girlfriend. This is not because we just born like that. But it is because we build our relationship together, create several new health habits, swimming and hiking, for example, together. As a result, our relationship is very strong.

In order words, try to change yourself to be a better person. Everyone hopes his or her partner is a health and active person. Moreover, the only thing in this world you can change is YOURSELF.

Look! There are a lot of activities to boost your relationship in your daily basis. Remember your partner and you are living together 365 days annually and not just living together during those special events. I hope these top two tips will help you to build a long term relationship in your life.

Good luck and have a nice day^^
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amelia said...

nice tips ! yes, communication is very important in relationship.. I agree with you.. because I've ever got problem because of "lack of communication"

Xaivier Chia said...

Hi, Amelia. Happy Valentine's day and hope your relationship will be everlasting^^


Love likes the fire, it can't be made a fool, it would burn your own.
The true love suddenly broken, not only but like the old man
who has lost the stick.
True love is love which only for two person, and no place for the
third person.

Xaivier Chia said...

Hi, Kamasutra. Indeed, true love is no place for the third person.

But true love should not suddenly broken. In other words, the suddenly broken love might not the true love actually.

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