20 January 2011

The Meaning of Real Life: To Be Yourself - Appreciate

Life is short. No time to take care all expectations from other people. Existing means knowing who you are NOW instead of predicting who you are tomorrow. Let go nonsense and selfish comments.

True is still true. No matter you want it or not. You still need to drink, eat and breath to survive regardless you are the richest person, the smartest person or powerful person.

No matter you want it or not. You still need to earn money to buy water, meal etc to survive. Unless you have achieved financial freedom.

HOWEVER, you still have a choice to make this place a better place to live. Spending more time in REAL world because you never get rid of your responsibility. Get away from your virtual world.You never ever be the HERO you want in virtual world. Besides, there are lots of things you need to settle in REAL world.

Take care your study. No excuse you should have if you have bad results and cannot further study anymore.

Take care your children. No excuse you should have if your children were abused due to your careless.

Take care your spouse. You do need to bring your car for servicing from time to time. Don't you need to accompany your spouse for shopping or traveling from time to time?

Take care your health. No matter how rich you are.You cannot enjoy your wealth without a good health condition.

Take care your parents. Simply show a respect to your parents is more precious than you give them $$$ every month.

Grass is greener on the other side. But is it?

To Be Yourself. Doesn't mean that you can just enjoy your "life" in virtual world. Watch PPS in the morning, playing online game in the afternoon, reading online cartoon and watch TV in the evening ...Have you ever thought to reduce your burden of your parents? Have you ever thought what kind of person you want to be when you grow up? Are you thinking it is not a problem now since everyone is doing the SAME thing.

To Be Yourself. The first thing is knowing what you want now. Ok, you know that you want to play game everyday. Are you sure? Do you have enough money to buy all essential things to survive? Do you own a car, house, good job, etc?

NO!!! REAL world is too terrible!!! NO!!! OK, restart the life just like any game. WRONG!!! The real game is in your REAL life now. It cannot be restart. But it can be fix with patience and persistence.

NO!!! My TRUE love is GONE!!! OK, restart the life just like any game. WRONG!!! WRONG AGAIN!!! TRUE love never gone. But it need your true heart to discover it in your life.

OK, I have true heart. I give all my saving to my "true love". WRONG!!! WRONG AGAIN!!! AGAIN and AGAIN!!!. TRUE love cannot to be brought by your money because TRUE love is priceless. But you might need to use your most valuable thing to own your TRUE love everlasting. YES, using your precious time to stay together, fight together, overcome difficulty, enjoy life together etc.

To be yourself in REAL life is free and can be done by anyone. You are not required to buy a top-up point card to be a better person in REAL life. You are not required to achieve conquer others to succeed in REAL life. All you need to do is appreciate. Appreciate your food, water and air. Appreciate people who love you, especially your parents. Appreciate time. Appreciate life. Appreciate people who help you. Appreciate people who hurt you.

That's all for today. Feel free to give me a comment about this topic or any suggestion about Xaivier Blog. It will be a great support to Xaivier Blog.

Written by: Xaivier Chia

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Tresna said...

Nice article Xavier.There are so many trying being someone until they found that they are truly valuable being themselves.

Your blog is getting better and better each day. Happy new year to you too. Sorry its been long time. I was so busy offline stuck with my thesis and finally passed it.

Success always to you.

Xaivier Chia said...

Hi Tresna,

Long time no see. It is great to hear from you again.

Indeed, it is quite hard for us to handle two "players", that are: "real me" and "virtual me", simultaneously.

May the force be with you. And keep in touch often.

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